Lunching Ladies - Another Day in Paradise

>> Wednesday, January 28, 2009

I had lunch with friends today. We try to meet for lunch somewhere at least once a week to catch up on things.

An hour or so after returning back to work from lunch, I was suddenly struck with the thought that life here is very, very strange.

We took lunch at a quaint little restaurant that serves pasta, pizza and delicious fusion dishes.

The owner of this particular restaurant was gunned down and killed by a man on a motorbike late in the evening last weekend. Right in the middle of his restaurant.

And as we were dining today, I nodded and smiled at a man I've been acquainted with for years, who was sitting at the next table over.

This guy, always pleasant and smiling whenever I've seen him, turned himself into police earlier this month after allegedly shooting someone in the back at a bar on New Year's Eve, causing injury.

He is one of a handful of people that I've met and befriended here and later found out they had done some heinous act at some time or another.

My friends and I decided that maybe we should eat at another location for next week's lunch.

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I Here

>> Sunday, January 25, 2009

As Momma Zen has noted many times, those needing to be snapped into the present need only to keep a child or two around.

Regrets past, anxieties over the future, the hand-wringing about something done/not done/needing to be done all melt away with the sound of "MOM!"

"MOM!", not "Ohm" is my meditative device these days.

Mom! I hurt!
Mom! I want!
Mom! I hungry!

Even so, I tend to drift into my anxious old ways.

A couple of days ago, I was sitting in the bathroom while the kids were bathing. My mind was fraught with many things, all the things I hadn't accomplished that day, worries about my colleagues' safety, frets along the lines of "What am I doing here!?", plus the usual low-burning anxieties about money, work, family, THE FUTURE, my sags and aches and pains, the state of the house and garden....

With my brain frazzled, I looked over at my daughter.

She stopped splashing around and stared back.

She smiled.

Then she said...

"Mom!

"I here.

"I not scared."

And went back to splashing around.

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Phuket: Luxury Destination for Some, Hell for Others

>> Saturday, January 17, 2009

I don't usually blog about my work but in light of my last post on Phuket's accolades in the New York Times travel section, it would be unconscionable of me to not to mention what else is happening in the region.

My colleagues at Phuketwan.com uncovered a story about alleged mistreatment of Rohingya (Burmese Muslim) boat people by Thai military officials on the very same shores that are described as paradise by the NY Times writer.

From Phuketwan:
Rohingya who arrived in Thailand were previously handed over to immigration authorities for processing. However, sources in the Ranong provincial government, police, navy and marine police all said that since late last year, all Rohingya were handed over to the army.

Through the very hard work of my colleagues, we have collected scores of photographs from the Thai navy, Thai Marine Police and regular provincial police of several scenes of arrest and detention of Rohingya men captured in the Andaman Sea, some of which show them lying facedown on the beautiful sandy shores of the small islands that attract thousands of divers and boat tours every year.

My colleagues also confirmed with villagers and military officials that the Rohingya were being taken to an Andaman coast island, fed and given time to recover, then loaded up on boats, towed out to sea, and cut loose into international waters with only paddles.

This claim has been confirmed by Rohingya refugees captured by Indian officials in the Andaman Islands and by those arriving into Indonesian territory, the BBC said.

The Navy yesterday denied that any of this was true. [Update Jan 29: Since then, the army and the government have also issued denials and conflicting accounts of what really happened.]

But the surreal aspect of this situation - where paradise and hell can coexist in one location - really came to light when boatloads of tourists came across this scene on the Similan islands:

[Tourist Andrew] Jones, whose name has been changed for the purposes of this article, described how guards armed with M-16 rifles forced the refugees to lie face down in the sand for at least two hours, then ''whipped'' them about the head with a strap if they tried to sit up or move. The refugees were naked to the waist and bound at their wrists.

Some tourists appeared oblivious to the scenes just metres away, continuing to snorkel and sunbathe. Others who were shocked by the treatment of the men and tried to photograph the incident had their cameras snatched away by angry guards, who deleted the images.

''Some of them [the refugees] were trying to sit up and looked like they were complaining, but they were answered with a whip on the back and head,'' said Mr Jones, a 23-year-old Australian student who is living with his parents on Hong Kong's Gold Coast.

Mr Jones provided photos of the shocking scene to both the South China Morning Post and Phuketwan. He came forward with his account after seeing our reporters' story about the secret 'exile island' program in the South China Morning Post. Here's his complete set of photos.

Phuketwan is continuing to do an excellent job of reporting as the story unfolds. There are still many Rohingya coming to Thailand by boat, in a desperate attempt to escape persecution and hardship in Burma.

The story has now been picked up by BBC, CNN and other news outlets, yet within the Thai media the issue has been given no coverage aside from the sanctioned Navy statement of denial.

There's a lot that could be said about the state of the media in Thailand; I'll leave that to the political bloggers. But it's telling that within the country the complete story is being reported only by a small independent media outlet, and on blogs and forums.

Anyway, I just have to say I am extremely proud to work with people who are so determined to bring stories like this to the world. The Thai reporter in particular was told many times to 'forget' about this story, but she soldiered on regardless.

She is a brave and scrappy woman!

The cynic in me says that nothing will change, but I have a glimmer of hope that now that the plight of the Rohingya is getting some international attention, solutions will be sought and found.

Update Jan 25: South China Morning Post has a video of a boatload of Rohingya being rescued by the Indian coast guard. No one deserves this.

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We win! Phuket Tops for Luxury Travel

>> Sunday, January 11, 2009

The New York Times says so, anyway.

Luxury Destination of the Year

The Rebirth of Phuket
Published: January 11, 2009
For travelers willing and able to spend the money to get there, the Andaman Coast is once again an inviting place to stay.

Looks like he came here in the sweet and easy time between hordes taking over the airport in Phuket (August 2008) and even bigger hordes taking over the two airports in Bangkok (November 2008)...so nary a complaint!

Actually, it's a pretty darn good place for cheap bastards, too, but you didn't hear it from me.

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Internet Censorship is Really Dumb

>> Friday, January 09, 2009

And this is why...

Yesterday I checked in to my sister's blog and in the box of one of her neat little widgets I saw this message:

****
ขออภัยในความไม่สะดวก
เนื่องจากมีรูปภาพ หรือข้อความที่ไม่เหมาะสม ในเว็บไซต์ที่ท่านกำลังชม

Sorry,
The web site you are accessing has been blocked by the requested of The Communication Authority of Thailand.
****

The offending widget?

Weatherlink.

Which feeds off the highly controversial website, Weatheroffice, by those really scary, subversive folks at...Environment Canada.

Maybe the Thai government doesn't want its citizens knowing about Canadian prairie blizzards and sub-zero temperatures?

Think the only thing frozen here are the brains of the censors.

Today, though, the widget appears just fine and I can see that it is -15 degrees Celsius at the moment in Calgary.

That is pretty scary information, come to think.

Some background:
Bangkok Post has an opinion piece on the new government's internet censorship surge.
Time magazine apparently has a good article about this, according to the Bangkok Bugle, but, guess what, I can't access it!

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Sniff kissing - How sweet it is

>> Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Hawm noi, na kha!

Since having children I hear this phrase a lot from people who meet our kids.

The rough translation is, "Let me give you a little sniff kiss, please!"

Before coming to Thailand I was unaware of this joyful little exchange, the hawm.

To hawm is to gently press your nose against another's cheek, then give a quick little sniff.

To show even more affection, you might give 3-4 hawms in rapid succession, or bury your nose in deep, nuzzle, and take in a longer breath.

The neck, arms and belly are also 'sweet spots' for giving a hawm.

Hawm as a noun in Thai means sweet smelling.

If you want to spread a little happiness around, do it by hawm. It's a sensational sensory experience that kids especially respond to with great glee and giggles.

I think there'd be a lot more peace in this world if we could all do a little more hawm-ing, a little less harming.

Don't believe me?

Try it, and let me know the result!

Update Jan 15: Just found an excellent, well-researched article on the sniff kiss at Baan Jochim Phuket that explains how this simple little gesture is not so simple at all...

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Another beach babe's bottom

>> Monday, January 05, 2009

Way to go Cindy!

I've known Cindy for years and each time I meet her I come away breathless at her vitality. She's the real deal people!

Love the vid...and quite timely in light of my last post on close-up bum images.



She's also a motivational speaker, and yes, I can confirm that she does motivate!

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Kate Moss Saggy Bottom Beach Frolick

>> Sunday, January 04, 2009


Reading the story about Kate Moss and her apparently saggy ass here in Phuket on Surin Beach over the weekend makes me think I'm rather glad I never became the rock star of my childhood dreams because it would probably KILL me if someone published close-up shots of my butt on the internet.

Kate Moss's Saggy New Rear

At least, I THINK no one has published photos of my ass on the internet.

Uhhh, hang on, lemme go Google it...

Anyway, Kate, hope you enjoyed Phuket!

PS. Just noticed that the sub-heading for the article is "Sight that will cheer up millions of women"

Ok, it's 2009 people. I think the "millions of women" in question probably have better shit to do.

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About Phuket

It's pronounced "pooh-ket", not "fuckit".
Its population is roughly 30% Chinese-Thai, 30% Malay Muslim Thai, 30% Buddhist Thai and an assortment of nutjobs and wackos such as myself.
It's a great place to come for holiday, but I'd rather you not because there's enough traffic here already, thank you very much.
It's a long way from Canada.

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